Hey gleamikins💫,                                                                                                                                   Often in our lives, We have situations where we need someone to speak to and help us. Even their presence is sufficient at times.  But, there are conditions, when we have no one around to provide us with that strength. However, everyone has their own style of dealing with such issues and tackle these times of solitude. For me personally, reading is a medicine. Whenever I have a certain problem with which I have to deal all by myself, I tend to read articles, blogs, where experiences of other people are shared. Trust me, it helps me to a great extent in taking a decision or forming an opinion in such situations of crisis.I believe that life is a beautiful amalgamation of both bright days and dark nights. Each one of them adds to the thrills of our lives. So, instead of lamenting the darkness of nights, one should savour it and look at the charm of the enticing moon, which himself glows and becomes the guiding light for others in the darkness. So, BE A MOON, GLOW AND SPRINKLE YOUR LIGHT ON OTHERS.So, this section of my blog, “3 THINGS TO DO”, is made to be the moon for the ones who are lost. I hope that I could be of some help to the ones who are in need in some way through this.

Remember you are not alone.

Thank you! Abhya Pandey

3 things to remember, “when you are feeling lonely”

1)Everyones life is different

Never do this grave mistake of comparing your life with others. Everyone is different, so is their life. It is a common thing that when we see others hanging out with a bunch of people, on the other hand we have less friends, we get that sad feeling of loneliness. We feel that our life is not happening. If you want to be happy, stop comparing.

2)You are your own happiness

Don’t try to find happiness in others, when you can be your own. One of the biggest reasons of being the victim of the feeling of being lonely is when we try to search for happiness in other people. But why do we need other people to be happy? Do we really need them? we make ourselves dependent on others, emotionally. We should just be dependent on ourselves, nothing else. Find happiness in yourself.

3)You are not alone

Feeling of loneliness is just an illusion. It usually happens due to various reasons e.t.c a special person leaves us, we have less friends, we are not able to fit into standards of society, we come across failure e.t.c. First of all, we are never actually alone, we have our family and our close friends. Having less friends may be just one friend is fine because quantity of friends never matter only quality matters. We should not distance ourselves from our family and friends, share your problems with them. Maybe you yourself is distancing yourself from them. Lastly, if no one, than you have yourself. Answers to all the questions are in you.

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