Stars for your soul .1

“Whatever you say or the way you act matters. You never know how immensely, even your little action can affect someone. So, think before speaking or doing anything” -Abhya Pandey

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3 things to do, “ when you are being indecisive”

Hey gleamikins💫,                                                                                                                                   Often in our lives, We have situations where we need someone to speak to and help us. Even their presence is sufficient at times.  But, there are conditions, when we have no one around to provide us with that strength. However, everyone has their own style of dealing with such issues and tackle these times of solitude. For me personally, reading is a medicine. Whenever I have a certain problem with which I have to deal all by myself, I tend to read articles, blogs, where experiences of other people are shared. Trust me, it helps me to a great extent in taking a decision or forming an opinion in such situations of crisis.

I believe that life is a beautiful amalgamation of both bright days and dark nights. Each one of them adds to the thrills of our lives. So, instead of lamenting the darkness of nights, one should savour it and look at the charm of the enticing moon, which himself glows and becomes the guiding light for others in the darkness. So, BE A MOON, GLOW AND SPRINKLE YOUR LIGHT ON OTHERS.

So, this section of my blog, “3 THINGS TO DO”, is made to be the moon for the ones who are lost. I hope that I could be of some help to the ones who are in need in some way through this.

Remember you are not alone.

Thank you!

Abhya Pandey

3 things to do, “When you are being indecisive”

 1)Stop Seeking for advices

Whenever we are not able to land to a conclusion or fail to take a definite decision in any condition, we often run for advices to others. We tend to ask every other person to counsel us regarding that particular matter. But more the advices, more the things get muddled up. More we try to imbibe words of other beings, more we tangle up the situation. So, in the situation of such sort, instead of listening to others, look inside yourself. You, yourself is capable of doing anything.

2)Don’t Panic             

 Panicking make things worse. This is something we must avoid at any cost because it takes our power of thinking sanely. In any disputable situation, we should keep calm. Otherwise, we will end up going berserk. To be true, we might end up taking wrong decision. So, shed off that extra tension, focus and keep calm.


Be patient and try to interpret the situation properly on your own. Try to scrutinise every possible option, minutely. A proper analysis of the situation from tip to toe can help you land to a correct decision without much pain. So, always analyse any situation properly before jumping to any decision.

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Flawlessly Flawed!

I am not the colour of my skin, I am the shimmer of my soul. I am not the size of my body, I am the Magnanimity of my heart. I am not about the beauty of my face, I am about the charm I have within. I am not about the way I look, I am about the way I behave with others. Outer beauty, a perfect body, they all are temporary. What stays is you, your soul. one should not just be beautiful, they should be “Beyond Beautiful”. Beyond beautiful is the one who is beautiful from within. You will cease to look the way you are the other moment. Inner beauty is timeless.

-Beyond Beautiful

-Abhya Pandey

Hey Beautiful! or Hey Ugly!, how should I address you? I sound like I am crazy, right? why would you want yourself to be called ugly? Wouldn’t it shoot your ego? But I have a question, does it really matter? Does it really matter the way we look or if we fit in the societal standards of being called ” beautiful”? The answer is “No”. what defines us is our character, the way we think, the way we are towards other people. The thing that matters is the beauty of our soul, not the skin. The things we should be actually concerned about is our inner make-up. But I feel sad to say, we are least bothered about it.

Beautiful word itself is flawed or rather we have narrowed its context. Beauty is always associated with aesthetic beauty, excluding any qualitative values. Each one of us have plethora of reasons to be called beautiful apart from our aesthetics, it might be due to our psyche, our overall persona, our qualities, skills, humility e.t.c. So, why restrict the beauty of this word, beautiful to just our looks?. On the other hand, we should not feel dejected if someone says you ugly because the way beautiful has a great depth to it, ugly too has a greater context. What would you prefer, an ugly soul with beautiful body? or an ugly(or rather unique) body with a beautiful soul?. For me the later one, wins. Also, beauty is subjective, what looks good to you might not be charming to others. So, why not stop thinking about superficial beauty? Inner charm is what makes you.Just think!

Nothing in this world is perfect or flawless. Every single being has some or the other flaws in them. Flaws make each one of us unique. It makes us stand apart from a chunk of people. Instead of lamenting about our shortcomings. We should cherish it. We should cherish each and every inch of our skin and even the smallest quality we have. We should love the way we are and should never feel low about ourselves. The biggest boon that we have is ourselves. So, love yourself, love your body, love your skin, love everything about you. Just be flawlessly flawed. Flaws are beautiful. They are you.

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